Writing at the intersection of motherhood, feminism and my Latinidad

09 April 2008

Work it, Mom! Wednesday

My latest post for Work it, Mom! is now up. Here's a quick preview:

I have a confession - I was a finalist for the 2006 Swiffer Amazing Woman of the Year. The call went out for nominations and many thought it was stereotypical for a cleaning product to name amazing women. Of course I went directly to the fine print and rules. No where did it say that the amazing woman had to keep a clean house. This was important because I’m a lucky gal in that my husband is the one who keeps us from living in a pit of dirty dishes and laundry. If we were to tally up the hours each of us spends on chores I believe it would be at least a 60/40 split (some weeks far more towards the 80/20 end) with my husband on the losing end. I know we’re a rare pair, but among our hetero-couple friends, it’s fairly common for them to be engaged in an egalitarian relationship when it comes to chores and raising the kids. Obviously I didn’t win and it was pretty embarrassing asking co-workers to vote for me on the internet for a chance to spend the summer promoting Swiffers. But I really did want to promote the idea of egalitarian relationships - Maybe that doomed me, eh? I also wanted the cash prize $5,000 for a nonprofit of my choice.

Whether you work in a cubicle downtown or in your fuzzy slippers during nap time, all working moms have to manage housework on top of our paid work. According to a new study by lead researcher Frank Stafford, an economist at University of Michigan’s Institute for Social Research, when women get married, the amount of housework we do goes up. It goes up again once we have kids (that’s a no brainer, eh?).

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3 comments:

I can't believe you didn't let us know about the swiffer contest! We certainly could have increased the odds (figured out an algorithm to vote every second....)

BTW - I read this article too - right after I had been complaining about how I had straightened up the house in the morning, then when I got home a few hours later after doing some work (and Jay watching the kids) -it looked like a bomb had hit the house....

LOL!!!!

Um, yeah...I didn't quite do all the outreach I could have done.