Written by Ana Lilian Flores, co-publisher of SpanglishBaby , a site for parents raising bilingual and bicultural children and can always be found @laflowers . I don’t think I’ve ever considered myself a feminist. I’m not a provoker, an activist, nor a social conscious spear-header at large. Not that I’m much for labels, as it is. I grew up in the midst of El Salvador’s deadly and grueling Civil War in an era when you did not question the status quo. Much less if you belonged to the close-knit social class I was born into. The words ¿por qué? were hardly ever uttered and much less encouraged. Not that I even minded back then. I didn´t know better. The seed of political activism or of traditional feminist tendencies of any kind were never planted in me. The woman that shaped my life and formed my first tribe were indeed strong and luchadoras , but always within the safe confines of their vast and plentiful homes. They treasured their luxuries, their leisure, their freedo...